‘Tis the Month to Forge Ahead – or Not

‘Tis the month to forge ahead, fa-la-la-la-la, la-dah-dee-dah. Yes, I know Christmas was so last week but the impact lingers on. Frankly, I think the narrator of “The Night Before Christmas” had it right.
“And Ma in her kerchief and I in my cap,
Had just settled down for a long winter’s nap.”
Let’s pause the story right there.
When the days are at their shortest and temperatures continue to drop, wouldn’t it make sense that we, like many of our animal friends, would pull in our energy and hunker down? The effort it takes to get up and head outside is tremendous (Southern California and Florida friends being the exception at the moment). You put on the layers, brace against the cold until the car warms up, go out again into the cold, go into a (hopefully) nicely warmed environment, and reverse the process to get home. It takes a lot of energy for a body to continually adjust to temperature changes like that.
Yet, after an entire month of heightened activity associated with the holidays, we in the developed world wake up on January 2nd and enter the year full speed ahead.
- Start recovery diet
- Commit to exercise program
- Launch new business program
- Get more clients or customers
- Do it now, do it now, repeat
Granted, we live in temperature regulated, well-lighted homes so we don’t have to hibernate in the winter to survive. And, yes, businesses run all year round. But what impact does this continual push to be “on” at all times and in all seasons – and especially in winter – do to our psyches and our bodies? It’s no wonder that “the flu and cold season” strikes in winter.
Some people experience Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), otherwise known as the winter blues. I have at times. It’s experienced as a temporary form of depression. Depression does not feel good. All sorts of methods are prescribed to combat SAD, from natural light spectrum boxes to cognitive-behavior therapy. What if there is nothing wrong, though? Rather than fighting an energetic response to changing light and sun patterns, might there be some benefit to slowing down and turning inward during these months?
- Bulbs lie dormant
- Bears hibernate
- Grass stops growing
- Humans get under the covers
A friend confessed that she is often in bed by 7:30. She is also often up at 5:30 but in winter stays in bed the first couple of hours working on her book. It’s not that she’s not being productive – she is – it’s that she’s doing so in a way that is more protective of her health and well-being. The last few nights I, too, have been getting into the bed and under the covers much earlier than usual. It feels really good!
Side note from this native California girl now living in Virginia with question for California readers: Even though it is unquestionably warmer in Southern California – and unseasonably so right now – I do remember feeling the same pull to retract my energy in winter as I do now. My tolerance for cold is famously low, but I would say there is a seasonal response at work, too. Even when it’s warmer, the light is still low and the days are shorter.
Do you notice a similar pull to “hibernate?” Do you fight it or follow it?
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Joan Friedlander
Love the comments! Reflecting on what has been said, so far, I’d say there is resonance with a the idea of responding to seasonal changes, and variances in each individual’s response depending on where one actually lives, as well as sensitivity to other influencing factors.
Christine, I’m with you about Christmas. I’d go one step further and suggest we skip it for a year and see what happens. Wendy, I like the way you expressed your experience, using the sun as your guide. And, Sue, yes, you are the friend. I love how you follow your inner compass.
Christine
Love this post. On top of slowing down, I am not a big Christmas fan. It does have to do with, in part, to the cold weather. I keep pushing to have Christmas in July! We are all in much better moods then.
Christine
Sue Rasmussen
LOVE this post, Joan! I so agree with you (and I suspect I’m the gal who is getting to bed early, as well as getting up early but preferring to stay tucked under my cozy covers instead of leaping out to face the day in the cold pre-dawn hours!)
My entire body and psyche prefer to hibernate this time of year. I don’t feel like leaping over tall buildings in a single bound…I’d much prefer a cup of cocoa and a blanket, thank you.
Brava, Joan, for saying what many feel, but few are talking about!
Hugs,
Sue
Wendy
Coming from the cold Midwest and now in northern California…I enjoy being able to go outside in the winter without bracing myself for the bone chilling cold. Having said that, I tend to think I should stop working once it starts getting darker in my office. And it may be only 3:00! But…I wouldn’t say I hibernate in California. I’d say I work differently using the sun as my guide!